• Use These 4 Tips To Increase Your Self Esteem

    Most people need a little self-esteem boost every once in a while.

    Self-esteem is all about how we feel inside. When our self-esteem is low, we can find ourselves living with anxiety, we can find ourselves in abusive relationships, and be prevented from reaching our true potential.

    There may also be cons to self-esteem. For instance, when a person’s sense of self-worth is unrealistically high, it can turn into arrogance or what is known as ‘narcissism’, and this can cause problems. Such individuals can find it difficult to accept and learn from their own mistakes and may develop a false sense of entitlement.

    Developing a healthy level of self-esteem is very important. For some people, a healthy, high self-esteem comes naturally. But for others, developing a healthy self-esteem takes more effort. Check out these pointers to give your self-esteem a kick-start.

    1. Draw up a list of your best points – For some individuals with diminished self-esteem, even considering making a list of their good qualities seems like a gigantic task, but it can be extremely helpful for boosting self-esteem. If you find this task challenging, consider what others say about you. What compliments have you ever been given? Start with those and then work from there. Jot your good qualities down using “I” and the present tense. For example, “I am a thoughtful and considerate person.”

    2. Regular affirmations – Take another look at the list you made. Choose your favorite qualities to use to do daily affirmations. Take those statements and write them down on note cards and sticky notes. Put the sticky notes where you will notice them everyday, such as on your computer monitor, bathroom mirror, or refrigerator. When you see them, take a few moments to repeat them over to yourself. Put note cards in your pocket or wallet where you are sure to come across them at least once a day. When you do, take a moment to read them to yourself a few times. In just a little while you can change out some of your best qualities for some of the other qualities on your list.

    3. Gain some perspective – People often don’t talk about their challenges, disappointments, and struggles in life, but that’s not because they don’t have them. How we decide to tackle these things will directly influence levels of self-esteem, joy and success. The really successful and confident people in life aren’t those who have encountered few difficulties and challenges, they are people who have viewed them as just a part of life and have pushed ahead anyway, learning as they go. Your failures don’t mean that you are a failure, they just mean you need to reassess the situation and the way you approach it and tackle it from a different angle.

    4. Make yourself the priority – Part of boosting your self-esteem is accepting you are deserving of your own love. Make time for yourself. Take care of yourself when you’re encountering a trying time. Say ‘no’ when you have to and don’t feel bad about it. Make your needs clear to others and ask for what you need. (If you find it difficult to say ‘no’, then look for some assertiveness training, or check out a book on the subject.)

    Use these 4 simple tips and you will increase your self-esteem. Above all, make sure you are kind to yourself and give yourself just as much love as you give to the important people in your life. You truly do deserve it!



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